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Now You Can Argue
- Make an appointment with your spouse to discuss the issues that are bothering you.
- Lunch time (this way he has the time to think about the issues in the afternoon), someplace outside your home.
- Write down the things you need to talk about.
- Discuss the resolution. If in doubt seek advice.
- The best rule of negotiation and to get the best result of what you like to achieve is this rule: POSITIVE - NEGATIVE - POSITIVE. It means first talk about positive things, then discuss the negative things that is bothering you & don't like, then again finish it with the positive attitude of how you like this to be resolved in a best way.
This is something fun to consider
Recognition of different personalities & How to Understand each other's wording
According to research some of us respond to listening in different ways.
The listening personalities are as follows: Feel, Look, Hear
Hear Personality: - they respond to "Do you Hear what I am saying"?
Look Personality: "Do you See what I am saying"?
Feel Personality: "Do you Know what I am saying"?
How would you know which is which? By asking each individual to tell something interesting about their childhood memories. Their answer will fall into "I remember how I felt, or how I saw it, or what people said.
Hear personality, will look side to side when asked to say something of their past.
Look personality, will look up when asked.
Feel personality, will look down while remembering their past.
We put our words in different clothing, but we mean it the same thing. Couples usually fall into different wording personalities. This makes it a bit difficult to understand each other's point of view easily. Recognize and understand which personality you or spouse are and adjust your wording accordingly.
(This does not mean you need to change your own personality, it only means to adjust your wording, if it is not understood correctly, or to facilitate a better understanding of each other).
A Woman's Guide to Changing Her Man
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